Seriously?©
OK, so I haven’t completed another search of SL yet… I’ll get around to it. In the meantime, this issue has been bothering me the last couple of nights so I thought I would comment on it.
So I’ve done my share of SLex… it’s like an integral part of the SL experience, and I felt it was my duty to check it out. It’s fun, I enjoy it, I think I’m pretty good at it. Friends tell me I’m still in my SLex stage, w/e that is, but I’m starting to see what they are talking about. I have found people that are interested in casual SLex, and I have found people that only want committed, monogamous SLex. Right now I can name 2 people who would have SLex if I would only commit to them, two people who want to SLex in the hopes of it leading to a relationship, one person who is committed to someone else so CAN’T SLex, one person who would prolly SLex but never has time, and one who wants to be chased before she will consider SLex. Sprinkle in the few random SLex that are floating on the periphery and you would think that I could occupy all of my free time, right?
If that’s the case, why have I been alone the last couple of nights and logged off out of boredom? Sure, most of you will say “Hey dumbass, if you wouldn’t treat woman like blah blah blah…” and then you’ll sit back in your smug little self saying how I deserve what I get. Thats fine. Chances are I’m not trying to SLex with YOU anyways, heh. Regardless… what is your advice? Think I need to just settle down? Think I need to relight the fire and do my best to serve the needs of the many? Why not leave me a comment here and tell me what you think?
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July 23, 2008 at 1:26 pm
Not who you think it is
I have just a couple of pointers for you. A very wise and wonderful woman in SL told me of the 5 phases of SL.
1 Noobie
2 Sex
3 Exploring
4 Building
5 Making Real Money
She moved me from 2 in to 4 then 5 in just a few weeks and changed my SL forever. I am very thankful for her doing that for me. Good thing is you can always go backwards. LOL
I have been in SL about 1.5 years and I have found that you need to find people with common views on your SLex life. The thing is to be open and honest from the start. I’m not saying you haven’t. But doing so puts it all out on the table and lets you know if you should go after this person or that one. I tell people that I am a free spirit and not looking for any ties. That I am here for the fun and fantasy of it all. The other thing to do is to have total respect for everyone. If you treat everyone with respect, even the ones on the boarder may experiment with you just to see what you are like knowing you will still respect them as an equal participant.
But knowing what you want is the first step. Not bending to the wants of others just to have a chance at them. There are so many people in SL, more women than men, and everyone is looking for something. I think the key is to finding the ones that want the same as you.
For me, the best part is the chase. Meeting someone that thinks you want them now, and playing it cool, waiting, getting them to want you when at first they didn’t let on that they wanted too. I feel it’s better to get to know someone first and then the SLex will be more enjoyable. Other wise it’s just pose ball jumping and that does get boring.
Hope this helps a bit. Just changed my name in case some of the women I am chasing read this.
Good luck and most of all… enjoy!
July 23, 2008 at 1:33 pm
Abfab
*in her best scottish accent* Fook no! Dooont settle doon, ya daft bastarrrrd!! Wut the fook kinda crrrazzzy shite it that kinda talk?
lol
Dont settle down…your Giskard for godsake. Spread the man-parts around. Be generous. Like a penis-sprinkler, shooting your greatness to the 4 corners of SL. Dry hump people as they walk by. Reach out and grab a boobie.
Next time, I want to talk directly with your man-parts. Your brain seems to be getting in the way all the time……LOL
July 25, 2008 at 2:24 pm
Squirrel # 1
I can pencil you in between my massage and my manicure. Please have your parts in hand, prepped and ready.
Love you, Mean it.
July 29, 2008 at 3:05 pm
-Sissy
ROFLMAO at Squirrel!
This is where we differ. I never viewed SL as I’m starting to notice that many many others do… as if it is some sort of overly glorified dating service. I never went in SL looking for anything other than an escape from my RL. SL is a lot about role playing, role play the male slut and enjoy. -S.
July 30, 2008 at 8:12 am
nichole/nikki susanto
i think im lost for words today.
August 3, 2008 at 7:23 am
Sav
Hi Sexy!
My advice to you is to live your SL to the fullest. Make lots of friends, (with benefits of course), have fun, and enjoy! SL is a place to experience & experiment things that you are curious about in RL, yet don’t have the opportunity, to try.
Don’t look for the perfect girl, or the perfect SL relationship – don’t settle – just enjoy exploring your options. It seems to me, that you always find the best stuff, when you’re not looking!
August 14, 2008 at 3:30 pm
Abfab
*totally humps all over Sav’s comment”